I have just finished reading "The 10 Minute Inservice" by @ToddWhitaker and @AnnetteBreaux. If you have not read this book, it has a lot of great resources for both administrators and teacher leaders. I have already emailed a few suggestions to my colleagues from this book. I highly recommend getting your hands on this very practical approach to quality PD for a school staff.
The one part of the book that really has me thinking is the chapter entitled "Professionalism Is as Professionalism Does". The authors do a great job of describing ways to handle "Negative Nellies" in a school environment. Of course, their approach is that there are not any in our school, but if you ever were to run into one...here is what you do. Very tricky approach to addressing the elephant in the room without calling it by name!
What made me sit down and write was the impact that simple title had on me. How easy is it to complain about a student, a class, a lesson or program instead of buckling down to improve the situation? How easy is it to "pile on" when a colleague starts this kind of a session? We need to remember we are professionals.
This should be magnified, in my opinion, when we are talking to people outside of the school building. The conversations we have about our profession need to be positive. I constantly have conversations with several friends during the school year that are not in education. I have noticed how the tone of the conversations has changed since I forced myself to remain as positive as possible. This change was considered after I had a friend comment: "Yeah, but you get summers off, so a tough class isn't that bad, right?" That comment hit me like a ton of bricks!
That is when it dawned on me that educators need to be positive about our profession all of the time. It can not be limited to just school hours, or while we are in the building. We need to work very hard at keeping a positive spin on what we do.
I am not naive. I know we all have days, weeks or months where we want to pull our hair out. With every passing year, my hair is getting greyer and greyer. We have students, classes or parents that just make us want to scream. Go ahead and scream. Get it out. IN PRIVATE! After you do that, get back to being positive. The public needs to know that our job is tough, but there is no place else we would rather be!
Like I mentioned earlier, being professional all of the time is tough. There are days when we do not feel like being positive. We are tired. Our programs are underfunded. We have ridiculous mandates passed down from our state legislatures. But, you know what? My experience has shown me most of the public does not care. If we want to be seen as professionals, we need to act professionallly. All of the time. Every day. Don't our students deserve the effort?